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Divorce is widely recognised as one of the most stressful events a person can go through.
For neurodivergent individuals or couples where one or both partners are neurodivergent, the process can present additional challenges that the legal system is only now beginning to acknowledge fully.
It is estimated that around 15 per cent of the UK population is neurodivergent, encompassing conditions such as autism, ADHD, dyslexia, dyspraxia and Tourette’s syndrome.
The Family Justice Council has published specific guidance for family lawyers on neurodiversity, recognising that traditional adversarial processes are not always well suited to neurodivergent clients.
How neurodiversity can affect divorce or separation
Neurodivergent individuals may experience differences in communication, sensory processing, executive function and emotional regulation.
In the context of a divorce, this can affect how someone handles correspondence, takes in complex financial information, manages court timetables or sits through long meetings.
Without thoughtful adjustments, these differences can lead to misunderstandings and, in some cases, unfair outcomes.
A neurodivergent parent navigating a child arrangements dispute may, for instance, struggle to participate effectively if hearings are scheduled in environments that are overwhelming or if information is provided in formats that do not suit them.
Adjustments that can help
Practical adjustments can make a meaningful difference. Examples include:
- Providing information in writing in advance rather than relying on verbal updates
- Breaking meetings into shorter sessions with regular breaks
- Allowing additional time to consider documents and respond to correspondence
- Using clear, plain language and avoiding unnecessary jargon
- Considering virtual hearings or quieter meeting environments where appropriate
- Bringing in a trusted support person to attend meetings
Where children are neurodivergent
Where one or more children are neurodivergent, child arrangements need to be designed around their need for routine, consistency and predictability.
Transitions between households can be particularly difficult, so handovers, school arrangements and contact schedules often benefit from being structured carefully and reviewed regularly.
Co-parenting tools, written communication protocols and clear shared calendars can all help to reduce friction between separated parents and provide the stability that neurodivergent children rely on.
Choosing the right process
Out-of-court options such as mediation, collaborative law and arbitration can be particularly well suited to neurodivergent parties because they offer more control over the pace, format and environment of discussions.
Court proceedings remain available where necessary, but in many cases, a less adversarial route will produce better and more sustainable outcomes for everyone involved.
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